I make good money. Why do I still feel like this?

(yourbrainonmoney.substack.com)

61 points | by momentmaker 20 hours ago ago

18 comments

  • anon-3988 13 hours ago ago

    Humans are simply NOT designed to _be_ happy, we are designed to _search_ for happiness.

    Any genes that makes us totally content have been wiped out by millions of years of evolution. We will never simply "be happy". Happiness will always be just around the corner. Any sense of happiness, fulfillment or content that you have ever felt are all bait and lure created by the mind so that you remember to desire for more.

    I understand the article talks about more than that. However, to me, the fact that people is not happy is not particularly interesting.

    OT: I think the cause of the wealth gap is much simpler. It is the stock market. I imagine a society where there is no stock market, but instead everyone invest in their local economies. We would probably be growing much slower, but who cares?

    • belviewreview 11 hours ago ago

      "Humans are simply NOT designed to _be_ happy, we are designed to _search_ for happiness."

      If that were true, then all humans and the people in all cultures would be equally unhappy. And everyone would be equally unhappy all the time. But they are not, partly because of people's expectation levels.

      • solarkraft 8 hours ago ago

        That assumes that the cultures have similar conditions for striving towards happiness. I would not say this is the case, both for economic and idealistic reasons.

      • sph 9 hours ago ago

        In what paradise do you live in? On average, people are equally unhappy. Why do you think there’s a saying that ‘money doesn’t buy happiness’? You could be rich, you could be poor, you could be healthy, you could be a cripple, you’ll still feel meh, on average, about the whole life business.

        Happiness is an extreme, like sadness is another. You dip into those states for a bit, the homeostasis returns you to the middle. Now, we could discuss if anyone is content or not. The West sells happiness, the East tried to teach contentment. They are very different things.

  • bigbadfeline 16 hours ago ago

    Good writing, the thoughtful selection of facts and stats paints a clear picture, which in this case takes the form of a question, actually several questions.

    > “Middle class” stopped being an economic description a long time ago. It became an identity > “Middle class” has become a psychological container that absorbs all of this anxiety

    True, identity politics is a key part of political psychology, it's much more than race and gender.

    > They’re watching the quality decline while paying more for it.

    Too few talk about it, good to see it here. Of course, this is profit driven, it's good for profits but where do the profits go? Not in productive investments, which would bring prices down and quality up, but neither is happening. The only quick cure I can see is seriously progressive corporate taxation... but reality is now being driven in the opposite direction.

    • brokenmachine 14 hours ago ago

      What's odd to me is that companies don't seem to be targeting the niche anymore?

      When there's no cheap but ok product, common sense would dictate that somebody would try to fill that niche.

      Is everything a monopoly now?

      • anon-3988 13 hours ago ago

        99% of people don't care about 99% of things 1% of people really care about 1% of things

        So we get people complaining about things but there is no market for it. I can guarantee you the average people does not care if a laptop have 4gb or 8gb or 32gb memory, it doesn't mean anything other than the number is bigger it is supposedly better.

        Now apply this to every single item that you see. The table fan that I have right now is probably poorly designed piece of crap, but its good enough for me?

  • sixhobbits 18 hours ago ago

    Some interesting stuff with a lot of LLM tells (part that actually matters, quietly, etc) which makes me skim instead of read.

    Llm content can be good, but if I can't tell if it's slop or not at first glance (eg rent $800/year looked sus) I'm going to assume slop until someone I trust reads it and tells me it isnt.

    • apothegm 18 hours ago ago

      I can’t speak to the correctness of the numbers, but while it’s not particularly groundbreaking the analysis as a whole seems human and I enjoyed it. It’s got some tells that suggest LLM editing but is much more digestible than pure slop, at least.

      • reasonableklout 16 hours ago ago

        This particular article is reported as 100% AI-generated by pangram: https://www.pangram.com/history/52f51cff-9166-4b8e-ab2e-39fd...

        I assume the author found the data sources and did some editing, and they have a few other articles that appear more human-written.

        • bigbadfeline 16 hours ago ago

          > This particular article is reported as 100% AI-generated by pangram

          Your pangram is wrong, most likely deliberately so, there's material interest to train LLM-detecotrs to reject and taint everything that doesn't agree with the mainstream "alignment" constraints. This well written article is precisely such a case.

          If you want to exonerate pangram, ask it to give you the prompt that generated the article. Or you supply that prompt yourself and tell us to which LLM to submit it.

          It's a simple proof procedure, invented by myself, for the purpose of stopping the anti-llm SLOP which is being pushed on the web with a heavy hand. The offenders shall be shamed and remembered.

    • iJohnDoe 16 hours ago ago

      Having a comment on every post about whether or not it’s written by AI needs need to be added to the HN Guidelines.

      Read it. Don’t read it. AI written. Not AI written. Who cares. You don’t need to tell us.

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  • iJohnDoe 16 hours ago ago

    Nice article. Good points that seem to hit home on a lot of fronts.

    There will probably be a lot of comments saying it’s all wrong. Everyone is the wealthiest they have ever been. They have gotten 5 job offers after applying to 5 companies. Food prices are historically low, and so is fuel for that matter. You should be retiring at 55 and if you’re not then you’re doing something wrong.

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