Maybe the default settings are too high

(raptitude.com)

147 points | by htk 2 hours ago ago

34 comments

  • delichon an hour ago ago

    My dad was a busy construction contractor. One summer he tore himself away from work and took the family to a week long boat camp out next to a big beautiful lake. It turned out that our campsite was actually in the lake by a few inches at high water, but dad saw a way to dam it off and keep it dry, so he grabs the shovel and starts digging trenches and building walls and ordering us around.

    About an hour into that, pouring sweat, he stops cold and says "what the hell am I doing?" The flooded camp was actually nice on a hot day and all we really had to do was move a couple of tents. He dropped the shovel and spent the rest of the week sunbathing, fishing, snorkeling and water skiing as God intended. He flipped a switch and went from Hyde to Jekyll on vacation. I've had to emulate that a few times.

    • irishcoffee an hour ago ago

      My spouse and I dealt with this on our honeymoon. We were both working 50-80 hour weeks for months leading up to our trip. The first day we got to this all-inclusive resort we spent the whole time trying to min/max and be as efficient and calculated as possible. It was a stressful, miserable day.

      Day two we looked at each other, had an adult beverage with breakfast, and relaxed for the rest of the trip.

  • powvans an hour ago ago

    I find walking can be a similar experience. It really crystalized for me this summer while walking the Camino de Santiago because of the effect of exploring another country. When you walk, you see everything. The world is huge. Everything is slower, higher fidelity, and for me, richer. You can spend an entire day walking from one town to another. Think of everything you will see! Compare this to driving. Driving is like compression. You could drive between the same two towns in less than an hour. You may see many beautiful things while driving, but the experience is fleeting and momentary. You will miss so many details along the way.

    As always, there are tradeoffs, and you can't walk everywhere or always have these types of mindful experiences. On the other hand, life is short and perhaps paradoxically, slower experiences can yield richer days.

    • solnyshok 25 minutes ago ago

      ¡Buen Camino! I walked it 10 years ago and hope to repeat it soon.

  • chilmers 2 hours ago ago

    If you’re a fan of LOTR but don’t fancy reading it aloud yourself, I’d really recommend the new audio versions read by Andy Serkis. While I don’t vibe with every facet of his performance, overall it’s a tour-de-force, and really makes the prose come to life. Especially in those descriptive sections that it’s possible to glaze over when reading the text. Having an actor of the calibre of Serkis reading them to you brings out the poetry and beauty of Tolkien’s language.

    • loloquwowndueo 23 minutes ago ago

      Noooo. Audio books feed you the content at someone else’s pace, not at your (slow) pace, which is exactly what TFA advocates. Or, what are you going to do? Hit Pause after each sentence so you can fully digest and savor it?

      • Dylan16807 18 minutes ago ago

        An audiobook is bad if you want to go extra slow. I don't think I want to go that slow.

        The article advocates not rushing. In general, that's a good fit for audiobooks.

      • qwertytyyuu 20 minutes ago ago

        Use the playback speed settings, tough hitting pause every once in a while is also a good idea

      • Zenbit_UX 14 minutes ago ago

        First of all, I don’t recommend going through life yucking someone else’s yum.

        Second of all, I took TFA advice and read that article with the slowness and deliberate attention it recommended and found it to be trite and difficult to distinguish from AI slop… but if that’s what brings this person joy, good for them.

        Who cares if the GP eats their cookies in one bite and listens to their audiobooks at 2.25x speed? Because one self help guru turned blogger said it’s a bad idea?

        • loloquwowndueo 12 minutes ago ago

          Interesting how in your second paragraph you do exactly the thing you said not to do in your first.

    • xeonmc 36 minutes ago ago

      Is the entire thing narrated in Gollum’s voice?

  • chihuahua 11 minutes ago ago

    After I finished reviewing the CS textbook "Computer Architecture: A Quantitative Approach" in the mid 1990s during a vacation (looking for errors before publication), I found that my brain had been permanently reconfigured for speed reading. For years afterwards, I would automatically read entire sentences at a time, to go as fast as possible. I think I have now recovered sufficiently so that I can read books one word at a time.

  • katzgrau 27 minutes ago ago

    I had, by chance, taken the same approach when reading the Zen and Art of Motorcycle Maintenance years ago.

    The title failed to inspire but I heard it was worth the read and stepped through line by line.

    It hit with a depth that I know with complete certainty I would not have gotten if I worked through at my usual pace or took it in as an audiobook.

    Nassim Taleb’s books are also favorite slow reads of mine.

    All this said, I collect books faster than I can read them so there’s always a feeling somewhere that I should be pushing through a little faster.

    Ah well, in the end I think that really comprehending a handful of quality books is about as good as a shallow comprehension of many more.

  • malfist an hour ago ago

    I really enjoy this train of thought. It rings true to me, its also something Hank Green was recently talking about with the negative effects of the internet. Its not that the internet is bad. We're starved for information and meaning and were being feed a diet of ultraprocessed food in the form of shorts and tiktoks. I think the solution this author laid out is good. Consume quality, with care.

    • skydhash an hour ago ago

      This is one of the reason I use openbsd and emacs as my two main tools. There are better and more suited tools for some specific tasks. But using them is enjoyable and their core philosophy aligns to mine. And it’s not like I actually need those extra things.

  • danielodievich an hour ago ago

    We read LOTR to our sons when they were little. It was likely the 6th time for me,and 3rd in English. Stupendous experience. The command of the English Tolkien had is sublime. Wish the movies didn't take so much liberty with Faramir.!!!

    • mikestorrent 13 minutes ago ago

      I've not braved reading them LOTR yet, but my sons are still getting read to even as one's about to become a teenager; it's some of my favourite time in the evening and it allows me to force them through books just slightly too advanced, with lots of them stopping me to explain (or me stopping to editorialize, and provide historical context etc).

      I don't know how long they'll let me keep doing it for, but I don't see any reason to stop

    • eszed 12 minutes ago ago

      I can't wait to read LOTR to my (now four-year-old) son. Been looking forward to it since we started trying for a kid. Seriously, peak fatherhood moment. I'll savor it. That (and a few others are) on the embargo list: he's not allowed to see the film before we read the books. I wish I'd got Winnie the Pooh on there in time.

    • ErroneousBosh 40 minutes ago ago

      I am currently reading The Hobbit to my son, who is 5 years old and not quite able to read it by himself yet. Nearly, but it's a lot for him to get through. Some evenings I use my Kindle, some evenings I use the copy I've owned since I was 11.

      However now he has started to write stories about dragons and things, and that's a pretty interesting development.

      • djfergus 23 minutes ago ago

        For younger kids I can heartily recommend the Hobbit illustrated by Jemima Catlin- has plenty of pictures to them engaged. Read it to my 6 year old and we’re now excited for LotR.

    • fwip 27 minutes ago ago

      When I was about 10, I read the Hobbit to my younger brother (8), over a large number of half-hour car trips. It's one my prouder memories of that time.

  • dsubburam an hour ago ago

    Music is an interesting case. You can't slow down the consumption of music (you have to let it play at the speed the performer intended), but you can dial up the attention you give it. Listening with headphones, eyes closed, and phone+doorbell etc. switched off would be close to max. Sitting at a live concert (I am thinking classical) is up there too, because you've given yourself permission to not think of/work on anything else in that time. For music, we can say that the default settings are too LOW.

    And similar to the point OP made, you get more out of it when you attend more closely. And similarly, most music does not withstand this level of scrutiny.

  • pitched an hour ago ago

    It’s impossible to know if the content itself is worth the extra time and effort. Opportunity Cost is especially high in fiction. I agree that LotR should be on that list though.

  • cush 7 minutes ago ago

    Being able to truly tap into boredom is a superpower

  • JumpCrisscross 42 minutes ago ago

    One of the pleasures of reading literature is noticing how compressed they are.

    This is true for Tolkien, Turgenev, Hemingway or Pound. The amount of information per page—per word!—is incredibly high, which permits the conveyance of ideas which simply do not land when spoken more plainly.

    You don’t need to go to high literature to find this density, by the way. Political speeches from Republican Rome and America’s Founders have a similar aspect to them.

  • projektfu an hour ago ago

    Does Dostoyevsky really need the slow treatment? Some parts of crime and punishment merited rereading but, at least in English translation, I didn't find much in the style to savor. Really it was more thematically interesting and suspenseful.

    • tetromino_ an hour ago ago

      In the original Russian, Dostoyevsky requires the slow treatment. He loves the sort of 1/3 page long sentences that perplex the fast-path parser and force the reader's brain to swap; as if he wants to drive you mad so that you can better understand the madmen whom he writes about.

    • maplethorpe an hour ago ago

      Were you reading it in the original Russian?

      • JumpCrisscross an hour ago ago

        Haven’t gotten around to re-reading Dostoyevsky. But Turgenev’s English translations absolutely benefit from slow reading.

  • Morizero an hour ago ago

    LotR is a product of a slower era. I wonder how a modern/recent example would compare

    • wredcoll an hour ago ago

      There's certainly slow books still being written but most fantasy books in specific assume a certain amount of knowledge about a tolkien-esque world. You can do entirely new worlds, and some people do, but most stories are about people and the choices they make.

    • malfist an hour ago ago

      Maybe Robert Jordan or James SA Corey?

      • eszed 19 minutes ago ago

        I've not read enough Corey to form a judgement, but I don't think Jordan has nearly enough literary "heft" to satisfy close reading. Don't get me wrong: the story is fun - I enjoyed every bit of Wheel of Time - and would recommend it to anyone who likes that sort of thing, but the deeper stuff (characters, prosidy, world-building, thematic "meaning") don't bear much examination.

        In fantasy / sci-fi, I'd unreservedly recommend:

        - Ursula K LeGuin

        - Steven Erickson

        - Gene Wolfe

        With reservations, I'd recommend:

        - Patrick Rothfuss (unfinished)

        - George RR Martin (unfinished; sometimes dodgy prose, but occasionally transcendent character and theme)

        - Dune (just know it goes downhill fast after the first book)

        Elsewhere, but still genre (ie: meant to be entertaining, not uber-serious, self-conscious "literature"):

        - Patrick O'Brian

        - Arthur Conan Doyle

        - Dorothy Dunnet

        I'd recommend Rudyard Kipling's short stories, but they're hit and miss, and sometimes out of step with modern mores. Maybe stick with the Jungle Book, and Just So Stories, and if you like those make sure you read Without Benefit of Clergy, They (short stories), and Kim (a masterpiece of a novel).

        Once you've got through those, Hemingway is approachable, and the true modernist master. Fiesta / The Sun Also Rises (same book, known by different names in different parts of the world) is ironic and beautiful; A Farewell to Arms is beautiful and almost unbearably sad; his short stories are impeccable.

  • THEcrazydev 42 minutes ago ago

    delichon 34 minutes ago | next [–]

    My dad was a busy construction contractor. One summer he tore himself away from work and took the family to a week long boat camp out next to a big beautiful lake. It turned out that our campsite was actually in the lake by a few inches at high water, but dad saw a way to dam it off and keep it dry, so he grabs the shovel and starts digging trenches and building walls and ordering us around.

    About an hour into that, pouring sweat, he stops cold and says "what the hell am I doing?" The flooded camp was actually nice on a hot day and all we really had to do was move a couple of tents. He dropped the shovel and spent the rest of the week sunbathing, fishing, snorkeling and water skiing as God intended. He flipped a switch and went from Hyde to Jekyll on vacation. I've had to emulate that a few times.