How to stay sane in a world that rewards insanity

(joanwestenberg.com)

318 points | by enbywithunix 2 days ago ago

215 comments

  • grodes a day ago ago

    Social media + recommendation algorithms = echo chambers.

    If humanity's mind used to be like a wall covered in colors with long, soft gradients between them, today it looks like a wall painted in vertical color stripes with almost no gradient at all.

    I agree with the author's diagnosis but I handle sanity differently. Instead of learning to live inside the noise, what works for me is:

    1. Stop consuming feeds and short-form media. No ig, twitter, youtube, etc. When I want content, I choose long-form, meaningful things (or dumb, depending on the mood). Often the best option is to stay in silence, be bored, or take a walk around the neighbourhood.

    2. Do not consume news. Do not check the market. Just follow the boring investment plan you already decided when you were calm.

    3. Be kind to the people around you. Love your family: wife, children, parents.

    Extra, stronger steps that are more personal:

    4. Use the phone only to communicate with family. When you get home, keep it in a box.

    5. Read the Bible. Even if you do not believe, Jesus is the most impressive human I've ever learned about. When I started reading it I was agnostic.

    • sph 18 hours ago ago

      5. If you don't care about the Bible, I strongly recommend the Tao Te Ching. Probably the most succinct, KISS philosophy and spirituality book ever written in the history of mankind.

      To misquote Alan Watts, all other religions are for people that need the Tao explained with too many words.

      My favourite version to start with, and even more succinct than the original, is Ron Hogan's https://terebess.hu/english/tao/ron.html then you can move on to fancier translations.

      • gizajob 17 hours ago ago

        Second this comment. The Tao Te Ching is about as close to a “right answer” in metaphysics as we’re likely to get.

        Even after going around the houses for 2500 years, eventually philosophy reached Wittgenstein who had to hold his hands up and say “Whereof one cannot speak, thereof one must be silent” which is pretty well a summary of what Lao Tzu was pointing at.

      • chimpanzee 6 hours ago ago

        I highly recommend Ursula Le Guin's translation.

        https://www.ursulakleguin.com/lao-tzu-the-tao-te-ching

      • dominicrose 17 hours ago ago

        So you're suggesting an Eastern philosophy and spirituality instead of a Western one. I've listened to both Jordan Peterson and Eckhart Tolle, the difference is quite big but both points of view are interesting.

    • mc3301 21 hours ago ago

      I would replace your number 5 with "Hitchhiker's Guide to the Galaxy" or "MacBeth" or "Calvin & Hobbes" or maybe even Natsume's "I am a Cat." Also fun fictional books with impressive protagonists.

      Other than that, your first four points are wonderful.

      • WorldMaker 10 hours ago ago

        As an atheist, I do find some use for the Jefferson Bible. (US Founding Father) Thomas Jefferson collected all the best parts of the Gospels, dropped the miracles, some of the stranger allegories, but kept all the sermons (the things Jesus was said to have directly taught). It's about 14 "letter" pages, so almost "pamphlet" sized. As far as I'm concerned it finds most of the baby in the bathwater (IMO, so much bathwater), is an easy read, and says some things much more succinctly that I think a lot of Christians might be surprised to find are core teachings of Jesus in the Bible.

        I sometimes wonder what the country would be like if every hotel desk was more likely to have a copy of the Jefferson Bible than the Gideon Bible.

      • Y_Y 21 hours ago ago

        Strongly agreed. Reading the actual bible is (mostly) boring as sin. There are a couple of gems in there that you can just take on their own though.

        My personal favourite is Ecclesiastes which, apart from a couple of lines of slop added by a later author, has little to do with Abrahamic religion and is more just a little nugget of proto-existentialism.

           “Meaningless! Meaningless!”
              says the Teacher.
          “Utterly meaningless!
              Everything is meaningless.”
        
          What do people gain from all their labors
              at which they toil under the sun?
         
          Generations come and generations go,
              but the earth remains forever.
        
        
        https://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=ecclesiastes%20...
        • williamcotton 18 hours ago ago

            The more the words,
                the less the meaning,
                and how does that profit anyone?
            
            Ecclesiastes 6:11
          
            ---
          
            “We, and I personally, believe very strongly that more information is better, even if it’s wrong. Let’s start from the premise that more information, more empowerment, is fundamentally the correct answer.”
          
            Eric Schmidt
        • obruchez 20 hours ago ago

          I read Ecclesiastes back in 2019. It's probably one of the more interesting books in the Bible. I wasn't particularly impressed with it, but it's a short read, so I still think it's a good suggestion, especially if you're atheist or agnostic.

    • RunSet 14 hours ago ago

      > Read the Bible. Even if you do not believe, Jesus is the most impressive human I've ever learned about.

      You might also find it edifying to learn about Socrates. His trial and punishment are as compelling as Jesus' and I his existence is more likely to be an historic fact.

      • thefaux 12 hours ago ago

        Yes, they are similar and in both cases what we know about them was passed down by their unreliable students with an agenda. I have studied both over the past few years and I find myself disagreeing with Plato's Socrates often whereas I find the Jesus of the Gospels much harder to argue against.

      • svieira 11 hours ago ago

        I think that Plato's dialogs are well worth reading too.

        Also, just so you know, Jesus is as or more historically "likely to be real" than Socrates (three major works written by two people who knew Him, multitudes more written by those who knew those who knew Him, mentions by multiple historians of the period, a thriving cult in spite of vicious persecutions, etc.). Socrates has three contemporaries (Plato, Xenophon, Aristophanes) and then the writings of Plato project him beyond his time and into the philosophical context.

        But perhaps you mean "the Jesus of the Gospels" as opposed to "Yeshua ben Yoseph min Natzret" when you said "historic" here (there's good arguments for Jesus-of-the-Gospels being Yeshua ben Yoseph too, but one thing at a time).

    • o11c a day ago ago

      Note that "feeds" is a confusing word choice; I immediately thought of something RSS-like which often links to long-form content.

      For news, my rule is to check major headlines at most once a day (often less in practice), so I am at least vaguely aware what people are talking about. Doing it this way makes it clear how ... banal? ... most clickbait is. Something local might be useful; if they mention something national it's probably actually semi-important. Though, if you can't change anything about it, is it really?

      If reading the Bible, I strongly suggest starting with Matthew 5 and continuing from there, not too fast (maybe one chapter per week, so you can stop and think about it). This gets straight to the mindset, as opposed to the handful of protrusions that make it to the pop-culture version. [I have a lot more I could say about how to read the Bible, but it's no use posting it again unless someone is interested.]

      https://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=Matthew%205&ver...

      • grodes a day ago ago

        Personally, I really like Luke because of how clearly it is structured.

      • taejavu a day ago ago

        Consider me interested

        • o11c 5 hours ago ago

          Okay, so apparently HN has a comment size limit.

          Normally I customize this a bit based on exactly where my audience is coming from, and sometimes what question was asked. For HN I guess I'll assume someone who is aware of the pop-culture version of Christianity (which honestly describes a lot of people who went to church as a kid), not an active Christian, dabbling a bit in philosophy, and capable of understanding big words.

          (Technically, "The Bible" is plural meaning many books. But in English we usually treat it as a single book despite using "the book of X" for its componentse)

          The Bible is not a novel, and it is a grave mistake to try to read it like one. The Bible is also not a textbook, though that's closer.

          If we treat it as a philosophy book, I'd say the core theme would be "What is sin, what does that imply, and what can we do about it?", though this is often implicit, and much of the book is in the form of negative answers. I expect that if a reader doesn't ultimately "get" the mindset behind this question, the Bible will never make sense, never see it as anything more than arbitrary rules interspersed with random supernatural events. Yet, I also don't think approaching the Bible from this big-picture perspective is particularly useful - certainly, many people who read it are not into philosophy (as we now mean the word) at all.

          Rather, the Bible is food. You need to eat it regularly or you'll starve, and you need to give it time to digest or you will expel it without it taking effect. Like food, you should have a variety; some parts are not meant to be taken alone, while a few favorite superfoods you could in fact survive on if you had to. Some parts are low-density and some are high-density.

          =====

          The "Sermon on the Mount" in chapters 5 through 7 of Matthew is some of the highest-density content in the Bible, and (orthogonally) is designed for immediate practical use. It's even possible to spend a whole week studying a single verse for some of it (and ~3 verses per week for the rest), though I do not recommend this for newcomers. Even if you are missing 99% of the point and have no idea what you are doing, you can still get something out of these chapters if you're taking them at a rate of one chapter per week.

          A rate of one chapter per week is sustainable throughout the gospels and several other frequently-read books; for some other books, maybe 5 chapters per week is appropriate. Note however that chapter size varies quite a bit (~15 and ~50 are common) and chapters are not in the original (so if you're doing this alone, feel free to split or merge chapters even if the density is right, and consider verses from the adjacent chapters for context). For the "per week", at least in the high-density parts, I suggest reading the whole thing one day, then on later days focusing on a few verses that jumped out at you, and keep them in your thoughts as you go out for your daily life.

          From Matthew 8 onward, the content density isn't as extreme but it's still pretty high, and by now you're starting to get your feet under you.

          For a first read, I actually recommend finishing Matthew without ever going back to the first 4 chapters (not that you can't, I just don't have a good place for them), then reading Luke (which includes an even more extended start than Matthew has), Acts (the explicit sequel to Luke), and John (the gospel according to, not the epistles of) in that order. At one chapter per week, this will take about 2 years (note that part of the reason for this order is because some people might not think they want to commit to that). After this, start poking around well-known books or parts thereof (see below), then come back to do Mark. After this it's open season. At some point, learn to use margin references to discover new chapters to study.

          As a rule, in any given year, you should spend half your time in the gospels (which is common but sloppy shorthand for "the gospel according to {Matthew,Mark,Luke,John}"; strictly speaking "gospel" refers to "this is Jesus, the accessible and reliable solution for sin"), though not necessarily going chapter-by-chapter like the first time. When you eventually start reading the more difficult or low-density-food books, I suggest alternating on a more frequent basis, like every other week. Or, quite possibly if you're still here, you might be doing two independent study lines the same week - perhaps one assigned for a group, the other chosen by you personally.

          Some good books to consider reading, but only after Acts (and in my plan also John) include: Ruth, Jonah, the first half of Daniel, any of the short epistles (some specifically suggest James). There are also many scattered famous chapters in other books but I keep failing to make a list thereof. You will usually find references to these in the margin so don't be afraid to follow them (I'd suggest gradually ramping up how often you do this as you go through your second or third gospel), just don't get distracted from going through the gospels until you've finished them all at least once. Hebrews 11, however, is remembered for being a chapter that many of the margin references are made from.

          Note that the Bible is in part sorted by similarity. As a result, it is often a bad idea to go from one book to the adjacent books. This is particularly notable for Kings/Chronicles (two retellings of the same events) and several of Paul's epistles (same advice written to different people), but also applies within the Psalms (and Proverbs/Ecclesiastes, but they're shorter).

          Some books that can be a bit of a slog, and/or with little food content in parts, yet are somewhat reliant on sequencing: Genesis through Joshua, Ruth through Nehemiah, and the two epistles to the Corinthians (other numbered epistles are more independent). To be clear, there absolutely are even large portions therein that are both easy to read and profitable, but you should still approach them with deliberation.

          Some books to avoid for a while: Judges (full of negative examples), Job (much dreary philosophy which is immediately rejected), arguably Ecclesiastes (but other people like it), Song of Songs/Solomon, all of the prophets except sometimes when excerpted (Isaiah in particular is commonly cited), arguably Romans (I personally don't find nearly as hard as Hebrews, but others disagree), Hebrews (but chapter 11 is very notable to read on its own), Revelation (so many people go insane after reading it, it's not even funny).

          This is not the only way to read the Bible, and certainly there are other good ways, but I do have reasons for my particular choices especially for someone with no foundation.

          • o11c 5 hours ago ago

            (possibly the limit is 8k or 10k characters)

            A brief note on Bible translations.

            All translations are biased. Some translations have their bias obvious (which is good) or aimed at a target that is no longer applicable (also good); others are subtly problematic.

            Avoid, at all costs, any translation that goes nuts with paraphrasing (moderate paraphrasing is usually okay). Mostly this means The Message. Also avoid any translation that is only used by a single denomination; semi-related to this, I also suggest avoiding any "study Bible", which inevitably consists more of third-party ideas telling you want to think about the passage rather than just reading it for yourself. I have nothing, however, against mere narrow-margin cross-references and rare single-word translation notes.

            Other than that, for the gospels it doesn't matter much. Outside the gospels the differences become much more apparent.

            The KJV (sometimes KJB or AV) has been highly influential on the English language (and, per its preface, the translators were very aware it would be). If you can stand the "thee"s and "thou"s (which do add important pluralization meaning in some places) and archaic spellings, it remains of excellent quality in most passages - better, even, than many modern translations. Its biases mostly fail to take hold of a modern audience. However, it does measurably suffer from the lack of modern linguistic scholarship in some passages (mostly, idiom-like things in the Old Testament, especially Job/Psalms/Proverbs and the prophets). Traditional editions do lack the quotation marks and paragraph flow that modern translations tend to use (though basic paragraph marks are usually present). Note that what people actually use is usually the 1769 edition, not (as some only-ists claim, the "original" 1611 which is unreadable), though there are some minor variations (such as "graffed" vs "grafted").

            If you want something that keeps the KJV's advantages but is more modern, the ASV is mostly obsolete, but the NKJV is recent and pretty common (at the cost of giving up on the pluralization disambiguations). The KJ21, though much rarer, is quite useful because it does preserve the pluralization but modernizes the rest of the wording.

            The NIV is popular, but I actually find it quite problematic. I have caught it on several occasions flat-out making something up, far beyond what can be explained by being a moderate paraphrase or even preferring different manuscripts. In particular, if someone in a debate cites the NIV, they're probably wrong. I think I've only once found a verse where the NIV gave a useful reading where other translations did not.

            The ESV is not bad. It has its (unavoidable) biases but they are mostly of the obvious sort despite being aimed at a modern audience. However, I have found a few places where it introduces errors and ambiguities not in the KJV, such as Luke 22:31-32 (rigor summary for this verse: KJV/KJ21/NRSV/NASB good, NKJV bad as usual, NIV good for once, ESV bad for once). It is also prone to the problem of there being different editions in the wild with non-obvious differences.

            The NRSV and NASB also seem relatively widely regarded, though I'm less familiar with them despite using them as parallels. They do succeed at the Luke 22 rigor test, at least in the versions I happen to have accessible (unfortunately, like the ESV, they do have non-obvious version differences).

            There are a handful of other decent translations not mentioned here. But there are also a lot of low-quality translations, as well as minor variants of existing translations.

            The YLT (not the Mormon "Young") is obscure but useful if you don't know enough Greek/Hebrew to efficiently use an interlinear directly, because it goes all in on literal translation, even for verb tenses that are unconventional in English.

            • taejavu 4 hours ago ago

              Thank you, I appreciate this

    • bashmelek 15 hours ago ago

      I like the Bible too. It is unfortunate but not unexpected that it set off such a firestorm in the replies.

      I would even go so far to say that even nonbelievers would find much value in it, just reading at least the top stories and passages the Old and New Testaments. These are foundational cultural texts that bridge centuries of peoples. And if you are a nonbeliever who wants to read beyond the popular well known parts, please do! But read with a mind to connect with others, not divide.

      There are other good things to read too. Plato, Shakespeare, the Chinese Classics, Greek Mythology, folktales. Things that people share with those around them as well as their ancestors

    • eightysixfour 11 hours ago ago

      > Social media + recommendation algorithms = echo chambers.

      In actual tests, non-algorithmic feeds become similarly extremist: https://arstechnica.com/science/2025/08/study-social-media-p...

    • inatreecrown2 19 hours ago ago

      how can you comment on hacker news that you don't consume news?

      • jonasdegendt 18 hours ago ago

        I'd argue it's mostly trade news here, I'd assume the OP means commercial broadcasting, newspaper websites and the likes.

        Very different for your psyche in my experience.

        • tokai 18 hours ago ago

          Depends on your trade I guess.

        • inatreecrown2 18 hours ago ago

          lots of links to newspaper websites on hn in my experience.

      • ramon156 13 hours ago ago

        Would assume its more about pop culture news

        • kristianp 5 hours ago ago

          They're definitely talking about the news. The daily news isn't good for your mental health. Many alarmist stories and polarising ones on regular news sites and tv news.

      • astura 17 hours ago ago

        Or social media, at that.

        Let me leave a comment on hacker news (both news and social media) that I don't consume news or social media.

    • dakotasmith 11 hours ago ago

      Re: 5

      The Jefferson Bible [1] is excellent in this regard. He removes all miracles and most mentions if the supernatural in a cut & paste job of a King James version of the Bible. The result is portraying Jesus as a person, not divine.

      1. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Jefferson_Bible

      • WorldMaker 9 hours ago ago

        Thomas Jefferson knew Greek and Latin (was a "polymath" of the old Enlightenment era sort) and used somewhat more original sources than King James, translating them himself into English. He probably did cross-check the King James Edition for some of the English wording, or at least couldn't entirely escape its orbit/gravitational pull, but it is mostly true the Jefferson Bible was a fresh early-American translation.

    • kalaksi 19 hours ago ago

      Algorithms that are profit-motivated (trying hard to get you hooked) also reward "engaging" content which means clickbait, ragebait and content that often triggers some emotions and is easy to consume. So not the most balanced content.

    • e40 15 hours ago ago

      I think you could replace 5 with the golden rule.

    • appguy a day ago ago

      There’s plenty of wisdom in the Bible. The book of Proverbs resonates with me the most.

    • XorNot 18 hours ago ago

      What is it with HackerNews constantly recommending religion to people as some cure-all?

      • Balgair 16 hours ago ago

        Anecdata:

        I've never seen so many Christmas lights go up this early in my little neck of the wood

        They started doing heavy Black Friday sales ads almost immediately after Halloween this year, more so than I remember from even covid (but that's just my memory)

        The Christmas radio station started a full 3 weeks early this year. Typically it's after 6pm on Thanksgiving day that they start.

        Overall, people are worried right now. Religion slots right in there too.

        The Bible is meant to conflict the comfortable and comfort the afflicted, as the saying goes.

        • ghc 13 hours ago ago

          I saw a Halloween display at a Walgreens in late July. I saw artificial Christmas trees for sale at Home Depot in September. I don't know what's happening but selling goods related to a holiday 3 months early seems excessive. What's next? Back to school displays before school is even let out for summer? Easter displays just after New Year's? Valentine's Day cards for sale in mid-November?

    • lenkite 14 hours ago ago

      > One friend became “convinced” that every major news story was manufactured consent

      There is nothing stupid about this and it is a massive problem with Western news. Different anchors across different networks presenting news with the same words as if they were handed off the exact same script to read out, to emphasize the same talking points, etc. They make AI slop look so good. I fully stopped watching US News a few years ago.

    • pjc50 19 hours ago ago

      Going well until (5) .. beyond the basic textual questions (old or new Testament? Which translation? Apocrypha or not?), you then have to confront the relationship of the actually existing churches to the text.

    • MrVandemar 18 hours ago ago

      > 5. Read the Bible. Even if you do not believe, Jesus is the most impressive human I've ever learned about. When I started reading it I was agnostic.

      Yeah, read the whole Bible — the one people swear on in court, the one the preachers hold and up and tell you it is the word of god — and don't cherry-pick. So much misogeny and shit behavior. How about this one:

      “David and his men went out and killed two hundred Philistines. He brought their foreskins and presented them as payment in full to become the king's son-in-law. Then Saul gave his daughter Michal to David in marriage.”

      Yeah, let's kill those Philistines! Yeah, two hundred human beings! And let's cut off their foreskins because that's not remotely sick and dysfunctional at all and make a gift of them. Seems to be behavior that was rewarded.

      Word of the Lord is basically sick fucking shit.

      • grodes 6 minutes ago ago

        It a description of what happened.

      • gizajob 17 hours ago ago

        Because its entirely man made

    • godsinhisheaven 16 hours ago ago

      Great advice there, and I must especially echo bullet 5 here, read the Bible. One point of disagreement though: I don't believe Jesus left us the option of believeing he was just a good moral teacher. (Liar, Lunatic, Lord)

      • godsinhisheaven 16 hours ago ago

        Shoot I don't think I can edit my reply via this app, but I think the misinterpreted the comment I was replying to. Apologies. Anyways read the Bible

  • HeinzStuckeIt 2 days ago ago

    The author writes, “You end up in a world where changing your mind becomes impossible because you've built your entire identity around being right”. Yet social-media personalities regularly do a 180° turn on some issue (e.g. pro-Ukraine to anti-Ukraine or vice versa) and still keep their following and ability to monetize it.

    Social media is full of parasocial relationships; followers are in love with an influencer’s personality, not their views or factual content. So, the influencer can completely change his mind about stuff, as long as he still has the engaging presentation that people have come to like. Followers are also often in love with the brand relationships that the influencers flog, because people love being told what stuff they should buy.

    • alexachilles90 2 days ago ago

      It's more about being confident and extreme on their stance no matter what it is at that particular moment. People are attracted to personalities that are confident and says they are right all the time. Heck, personalities like that gets all the influence in the workplace too. Imagine John Doe in your office who has a solution for every problem and knows the code base like the back of their hand. You might find that they are not so right all the time (maybe 2 out of 3 times it's pure conjecture) but gosh you will go back to him for solutions the next time you run into a problem. What I am saying is that we are attracted to the extreme, the flamboyant, the controversial. Maybe it's time we prioritize critical thinking for the future generation no?

      • cal_dent a day ago ago

        I see it as the continued corporatisation of everything. I suspect that you'd be hard press to find anyone who has ever been anywhere above middle-management in a corporate organisation who doesnt see, and chuckles at, the similarities in the worst places they've worked and this:

        "Where admitting uncertainty is social suicide. Where every conversation is a performance for your tribe rather than an actual exchange of ideas. You lose the ability to solve problems that don't fit neatly into your ideological framework, which turns out to be most important problems"

        Politics is the obvious one to see this effect in action but it's bled into so many facet of society now because society is one giant grey areas but our mediums don't like greys. The medium continues to be the message.

        • lmm a day ago ago

          That's not corporatisation, it's basic human tribalism. If anything one of the the best things about corporations is that they can sometimes escape that kind of culture.

          • cal_dent 12 hours ago ago

            Sure but fwiw in 30 odd years in large corps, I’ve never come across any corp that doesn’t succumb to a sanitised form of basic tribalism

    • JohnMakin 2 days ago ago

      I have been a small content creator for 10 years now. I've been hampered a lot by actively discouraging these types of parasocial relationships - every now and then I'll get a gaggle of followers that spend entirely too much time on my crappy content or my personality/posts and I get extremely weirded out to the point I want to stop doing it entirely. Everyone tells me I'm doing it wrong, but I swear, 10 years ago it wasn't as much of a thing to create a cult around yourself on social media or streaming platforms. Now it's the primary monetization path.

      I've even gone so far to say to more than one person, "look, I like and appreciate you really like my content or my personality, but, you don't know me at all, I don't know you, and honestly, we're not friends, no matter how much you want that to be the case. That isn't to say I dislike you, but you need to be more realistic about the content you consume, and if this hurts your feelings a lot, I'm sorry, but this content probably isn't for you."

      Then there's the type of content creator that gets a following by being a huge jerk to their fans - I don't like that either. I just tell them to treat it like a TV show. It's not real, the character in the show doesn't know you or like you. Unfortunately for today's youth and media landscape this is an utterly foreign concept.

      • sizzle a day ago ago

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    • astroflection 2 days ago ago

      > Yet social-media personalities regularly do a 180° turn on some issue ... and still keep their following and ability to monetize it.

      And they asserted that they were totally right the entire time. That's how. And the sheep kept on following them.

      • BLKNSLVR a day ago ago

        There are / were a couple of right-wing shillers that were literally paid to promote Russian talking points and they just fit it right into their schtick without blinking.

        Nothing on the internet is real. If it wants money or opinion or attention, consider it hostile and try to find the strings (although it's generally not worth the time to try and find the strings, just move on and do something productive instead).

        https://www.npr.org/2024/09/05/nx-s1-5100829/russia-election...

    • volkk 2 days ago ago

      the words we use matter a lot. the "pro" and "anti" anything is a pretty large reason why all discourse has become so stupid sounding and talking with people about any issue is enraging. nuance is dead. the cultural zeitgeist is being controlled by algorithmic feeds that create neuroticism (i am definitely affected), general anxiety, and anger.

      • robot-wrangler a day ago ago

        My take on this is that persons are great, everyone should know a few. Groups of people on the other hand are, and always have been, genuinely pretty awful in almost every way. IMHO this is down to some really basic primate stuff that's just inevitable. Social media is a big problem because it makes it easier to create groups, and algorithms are a big problem because they essentially take all of the dynamics that would inevitably lead to conflict anyway, and accelerate them.

        Groups, algorithms, and conflict itself are all things that lead to wicked problems. Each one tends to spiral, where the only solution is more of the same, and if you escape one funnel then you fall into an adjacent one. Problem: Some group is against me. Solution: Create a group to bolster my strength. Problem: People are fighting. Solution: Join the fight so the fight will stop sooner. Problem: My code is too complicated to understand. Solution: More code to add logging and telemetry. Problem: Attempting to add telemetry has broken the code. Solution: Time to start a fight

        • hamasho 18 hours ago ago

            "A person is smart. People are dumb, panicky, dangerous animals and you know it"
          
          Quote from Men in Black
    • pengaru 2 days ago ago

      People are also more isolated than ever, positioning them poorly for having robust real relationships. This makes them vulnerable to mistaking "influencers" as their friends.

      • sandinmyjoints 2 days ago ago

        Yeah, "You cannot be reasonable in isolation" from the article really struck me.

  • rsynnott 2 days ago ago

    > But exposing yourself to articulate versions of positions you oppose does something valuable: it makes you realize that intelligent people can disagree with you without being monsters or morons.

    The idea that being articulate implies intelligence and/or sanity is very common, but really a bit weird. You can find plenty of articulate defences of, say, flat earth theory.

    • y0eswddl 2 days ago ago

      Ezra Klein's book why we're polarized cover this a bit and basically studies show that intelligence level has little to do with what people believe and more so just affects their ability to defend whichever position they already hold.

      • mikepurvis 2 days ago ago

        Indeed, and an articulate, confident defense can also be that much more insidious. I never found it hard to ignore obviously bad-faith talking heads on cable news, but when someone is on a podcast conversation with a host I like, it's much easier to nod along until that moment where they say something demonstrably false and I have to rewind my brain a minute or two to be like... wait a sec, what? How did you get to that position?

        • jkmcf a day ago ago

          They were called Sophists in Ancient Greece and were despised by Socrates because their arguments were based, not on truth or facts, but whatever rhetoric would convince the audience.

          • simpaticoder a day ago ago

            Yes, and the antithesis of rhetoric is reason.

            The quality I value in myself (and others when I find it) is a bias to doubt evidence of things I already believe, and to accept proof of things I do not believe. The bias isn't strong (that way lies madness!), but it makes your mental model of the world stronger. It's also a much better filter than "intelligent", "polite" or "articulate", which are all orthogonal to the kind of rational, open skepticism I advocate. The big downside is that such qualities are subtle and hard to judge. Tribal affiliation is, for all its faults, easy to measure.

            Another point of optimism: being a persecuted (or neglected) minority can have some positive effects, if you can find your people.

        • vacuity a day ago ago

          And in a classic stroke of Gell-Mann amnesia, if you're questioning what you just heard, how much should you trust what you were hearing five minutes ago?

      • hexator 2 days ago ago

        Speaking of people who are very articulate and also very wrong.

        • y0eswddl 2 days ago ago

          in general, maybe - In not a fan of how sycophantic he's gotten... but this was just the citing of outside studies, not his personal opinion.

    • thisisbrians 2 days ago ago

      Yes, it's easy to cherry-pick an obviously absurd position that could be articulately argued. But the point is that you are definitely wrong about some things and should generally keep an open mind. Even intelligent people are wrong about certain things, and in fact their propensity for rationalization can lead them into some absurd positions. But some of those positions turn out to be right, like the Earth orbiting the Sun, for example.

      • atmavatar a day ago ago

        The grandparent's point is that articulate prose is irrelevant to the strength/correctness of the argument or intelligence of the author.

        I would take it a step further and include that it has no bearing on the morality of the author.

        The original claim was:

        > But exposing yourself to articulate versions of positions you oppose does something valuable: it makes you realize that intelligent people can disagree with you without being monsters or morons.

        In truth, it does no such thing. Articulate arguments serve neither as proof the person making it isn't a monster nor that they are particularly intelligent or knowledgeable about that which they argue.

        Though, I would also point out that monsters can occasionally be right as well.

      • spencerflem 2 days ago ago

        For example, the author is articulate and wrong about needing to give consideration to republicans :p

    • morellt a day ago ago

      Absolutely agree. Many, many abhorrent ideas and perspectives are accepted very often due to them being deliberately well thought-out and appearing more "academic" sounding to the layperson. There are entire organizations (colloquially, "think-tanks") dedicated to writing pamphlets, books, and memos filled with eloquent in-depth talking points that get distributed to their respective talking heads. I can't blame many people today for seeing this problem as the foundation of all mainstream media, instead of taking the time to individually investigate each source of information. However it does lead to this "everything is the opposite of what we're told" hysteria the author talks about

    • corpMaverick 2 days ago ago

      Not all the flat earthers are true believers. Some are there just for the attention or other motives.

    • dylan604 2 days ago ago

      Even with the number of articulate examples like this are far out numbered by the number of inarticulate arguments that the rule still has merit. Exceptions do not make the rule bad.

      • Kye 17 hours ago ago

        A good rule can be a bad heuristic. In my experience this one misleads more often than it informs.

    • potato3732842 2 days ago ago

      >The idea that being articulate implies intelligence and/or sanity is very common, but really a bit weird. You can find plenty of articulate defences of, say, flat earth theory.

      The author has to say this because the consumers of the author's content would stop being right if the author was constantly dropping truth bombs like "being articulate doesn't make you right" they wouldn't get liked, retweeted, shared, and circle jerked about in the comment section on the front page of HN.

      Literally every content creating person or company with an established fan base is in this quandary. If Alex Jones said "hey guys the government is right about this one" or Regular Car Reviews said "this Toyota product is not the second coming of christ" they'd hemorrhage viewers and money so they cant say those things no matter how much they personally want to. Someone peddling platitudes to people who fancy themselves intellectuals can't stop any more than a guy who's family business is concrete plants can't just decide one day to do roofing.

      • beepbooptheory 2 days ago ago

        Alex Jones literally did this though starting around 2016.

        This is a strong argument probably but strangely aimed here. Reading the article, it does seem like you and the author agree about everything in this regard? You are kind of just rearticulating one part of their argument as critique about them. Why?

        Or where do we place the reflex here? What triggered: this author is BS, is pseudointellectual, is bad. We jump here from a small note about articulation and intelligence, to what seems like this massive opportunity to attack not only that argument, but the author, the readers, everyone. Why? Does the particular point here feel like a massive structural weakness?

        What was the trigger here for you, for lack of better word? Why such a strong feeling?

        • Karrot_Kream a day ago ago

          There are YouTubers that have talked about their struggle to change content that they discuss in their channels. The general advice is, make a new channel for a new topic because of how fans and their attention work. One YouTuber I occasionally watch talked about how they at first got hate mail when changing their topic because people in their old topic perceived the YouTuber to be one of the only voices in that field.

          My guess is Alex Jones is actually a big enough personality to be able to have a brand independent of his ideas. Not every creator has that luxury.

        • potato3732842 2 days ago ago

          Not every internet comment is a disagreement with what it's replying to.

          The entire "media intended for voluntary casual consumption" industry is rife with these sorts of "gotta keep doing what you're known for" traps. Pretty much every industry with minimal product differentiation is like this to varying extents. Sorry my examples weren't completely devoid of exceptions <eyeroll>.

          Anyway, two can play this stupid game. Why is it such a problem that I'm alleging this content is basically scratching the same itch in the same way as tabloids but for different demographics? Why do you feel the need to make this out to be an attack on everyone rather than a narrowly targeted "the world do be the way it is" criticism?

          • beepbooptheory 2 days ago ago

            I don't really think its a problem and didn't indicate as such. Its why I was asking questions, trying to reconcile arguments, and overall not trying to assume one way or the other. But I can see I somehow have wasted your time regardless, sorry about that!

            For everything else, sorry, I really don't know what you are saying, but your kind of righteous anger at the author is something I can certainly respect even if I am not quite sure what context you are coming from here. "Media intended for voluntary casual consumption" seems to be a pretty wide net.. what are you trying distinguish with that phrase? Media whose consumption is compulsory and not casual.. Maybe like educational/job training videos I guess? Instructional manuals? Also, what is the author here known for, that they have to keep doing? Really trying to parse here, is it maybe just "being intellectual"?

            Small aside, but it's easier to talk to my cat recently then to try and use any form of prose to communicate something successfully on HN. The breakdown of communication is almost surreal these days and I don't even know what to point to. Threads get like 3 levels deep and it just becomes a mess! While never perfect, this used to be such a great place for deep discussion, whats changing?

    • astura 16 hours ago ago

      Yeah, that really stood out to me, I feel certain positions are monstrous no matter how articulately stated. Saying something really mean in a more palatable way doesn't make it (or the speaker) less mean.

      This seems like a cognitive bias on the author that they are mistaken for universal truth.

    • lazide 2 days ago ago

      However, there are fewer articulate (and internally consistent) defenses of flat earth theory, than say… particle physics. In my experience.

      Plenty of timecube style ones, however.

      • rsynnott 2 days ago ago

        That's true, but if you want one, you can find one. If you've conditioned yourself to think that articulate==credible, then sometimes it only takes one.

      • whatshisface 2 days ago ago

        Yes, and this is not just due to the intelligence of the "believers" but due to the fact that describing 2=2=2 in a self-consistent way only takes understanding it while describing 2=2=3 in a way that appears self-consistent requires a true rhetorical genius.

  • Bukhmanizer 2 days ago ago

    As a long time proponent of reasonable-ism I disagree with a lot of this. The assumption that a lot of our problems stem from 2 sides just seeing an issue differently is just nonsense in this day and age.

    The big Problem, is that one side has slid heavily into authoritarianism, and the other side is completely ill-equipped to fight it.

    On any particular issue, the right will say whatever gets them more Power, and the left will bring out some sort of philosophy professor to try and pick apart the nuances of the conversation.

    • scuff3d a day ago ago

      I was thinking about this while reading the article. 15 years ago I prided myself on actively searching out opposing views and engaging with them. I still do that in the small scale, talking with coworkers or friends who have opposing views, but where the fuck can you find any reasonable conservative commentators these days. What are the most prominent voices? People like Ben Shapiro and Steven Crowder? They don't have an intellectually honest bone in their body.

      How the hell can you even get a balanced view in terms of news/media you consume when one side is dominated by lunatics and bad actors.

      • disgruntledphd2 a day ago ago

        Oren Cass and Commonplace are pretty good writers on the US Republican side.

      • throwaway31131 12 hours ago ago

        I'm not familiar with Ben Shapiro or Steven Crowder but what makes you so sure that their point of view is unreasonable? It seems you agree that their viewpoint is opposing, which likely means their premise are different, so isn't it entirely possible that their conclusion is reasonable and logical when one starts from their position?

        Also, there isn't one source that can represent the "conservative" viewpoint because there isn't one conservative viewpoint. There are many factions within the Republican party with sometimes shockingly different points of view. Just like the Democratic party representing the "liberal" agenda.

        I could just as easily ask, where is the one source I go to get an understanding of the liberal agenda? (Just a rhetorical question, I actually don't follow the news and don't plan to.)

        • danlivingston 6 hours ago ago

          How can you speak on this conversation at all if you're not familiar with anything?

    • spencerflem 2 days ago ago

      For real. Honestly, the idea that all people are good and caring and just see things differently is the comforting lie.

      I really really want to believe it. You get to feel happy about humanity, smarter than all the hysterical people, etc,

      It took so so so much evil from the Republicans to convince me that they are Not a reasonable side, do Not warrant any consideration, and that people who follow them Are morally corrupt.

  • didgetmaster a day ago ago

    When I go to the polling place to cast my vote for the candidate of my choice; I am often holding my nose and voting for the one who I think will do the least damage. I often wonder why sane, rational problem solvers are not on the ballot.

    Then I realize that our system often rewards the attention seekers rather than pragmatic leaders. Those who quietly get the work done are not invited on talk shows or podcasts. The don't have rallies and make the evening news.

    All the oxygen in the room is sucked in by the performance artists, who often say outlandish things but rarely get anything productive done.

  • biophysboy 2 days ago ago

    The main issue for me is the size of our platforms.

    If the owner of a platform tries to enforce a set of virtues, it will always be seen as censorship by a fraction of its users. That fraction will increase as the user base increases, as the alternatives diminish, and as the owners govern with more impunity.

    I personally think these loud users are immature, disrespectful, anonymous cowards, but my opinions are irrelevant — the important thing is that large platforms are politically unstable.

    The solution to this is to fragment the internet. Unfortunately, this is incompatible with the information economies of scale that underpin the US economy. In my opinion, our insanity is an externality of the information sector, much like obesity for staple goods or carbon dioxide for energy.

    I don’t agree with these individualized how-to guides. I can turn my phone off and go outside, but I still have to live in a world informed by social-media sentiment.

    • hexator 2 days ago ago

      "enforce a set of virtues" is a weird way of saying "enforcing basic decency". Let's be clear here, people who are rightfully banned are always going to complain. Our opinions as the majority who DO want decent conversations online are not irrelevant. We should not give those people equal weight to those facing actual censorship. Fragmenting the internet will never get rid of the problem that moderation needs to happen.

      • biophysboy 2 days ago ago

        To be clear, if I were in charge, there would be significantly more banning and moderation on all platforms. I am arguing moderation is more politically feasible in small communities, not that is any more or less ethical.

        • hexator 2 days ago ago

          "virtues" is just a loaded word now unfortunately.

          • biophysboy 2 days ago ago

            Let’s bring it back! I think being honest is good!

      • nradov 2 days ago ago

        What is basic decency? Is it indecent to advocate for atheism or if a women posts a picture of herself not wearing a burka? Many people in certain countries would say so. Personally I think those people are insane, and that maximal freedom of expression is the most important human right, but the fundamental problem is that there is no consensus on what constitutes basic decency.

        • hexator 2 days ago ago

          I'm not talking about cultural differences. I'm talking about people simply being assholes online. You will always have a group of people complaining about the rules, that is inevitable.

        • biophysboy 2 days ago ago

          You're correct that decency is a nicer word for conformity. Preventing social discord avoids violence, but creates repression. I think the compromise is basically liberalism. Let people make their own communities. Let people switch communities, criticize other ones non-violently, enforce their own w/ democratically determined rules, etc.

    • nradov 2 days ago ago

      A better solution to this would be to fragment within social media platforms. Allow users to post any content that's legal within their local jurisdiction. And give other users easy tools to create their own "filter bubbles" so that they don't see content which they personally consider insane or offensive. This would allow the social media platforms to sidestep political debates about censorship.

      • biophysboy 2 days ago ago

        I have wondered if the long term trajectory of social media is as a locally governed utility, similar to energy or water. I would love a boring page landlocked to my neighborhood. Obviously there would the NextDoor "Karen" issue, that would need to be addressed somehow...

      • Karrot_Kream a day ago ago

        Then you get the other side of this problem, the echo chamber effect. If people self sort they'll eventually end up in social circles that are completely illegible from the realm of physical politics, which leads to a political instability of a different kind.

        It's a hard problem. I think multi armed bandit based algorithms can help. Bluesky is a sort of "live" example of self filtering and it ends up creating a lot of fractional purity politics over which filter bubble is the just/moral filter bubble.

      • hedgeho a day ago ago

        Sounds like bluesky

    • baxuz 2 days ago ago

      Nah, the solution is deanonymization.

      People with no shame, and with strong anti-social tendencies should not be given a safe space.

      • EdgeExplorer 2 days ago ago

        Facebook has a real name policy and is a prime example of internet-fueled insanity. Why does deanonymization not help Facebook be a more positive place?

        • biophysboy 2 days ago ago

          To tie it to my own view, I don’t think deanonymization has any effect if the name is meaningless to 99.9% of the community. For every person fired for posts, there are 10000 others who are not.

          • array_key_first a day ago ago

            If companies really wanted to fire people for posts, they would start with firing people for vaguely anti-capital sentiment. Not saying racist things or whatever.

            We need to be careful what we ask for. Who is effectively doing the censorship matters. Powerful people are probably not going to be censoring based on 'good morals' - because they themselves do not have good morals.

          • jimt1234 2 days ago ago

            For every person fired for posts, there's a lucrative Fox News commentator gig.

        • piker 2 days ago ago

          Because Facebook monetizes the engagement of its formerly reasonable users by selling that engagement to spam bot farms?

      • anonbgone a day ago ago

        You said it brother!

        We should make everyone who disagrees with baxuz where name tags on their chest in the real world too. So we can know who they are.

        We can even put the names on a bright yellow six sided star. That way everyone can see them clearly.

      • bandofthehawk 2 days ago ago

        Does that also apply to people living under oppressive governments? Anonymity can be a useful tool for sharing information that those in power don't want released, for example whistle blowing.

      • stronglikedan 2 days ago ago

        If anyone should be given a safe space, then everyone should be given a safe space.

      • elcapitan 2 days ago ago

        So that people with no shame, and with strong anti-social tendencies who are in power can come back at the de-anonymized people. Yeah, thanks.

      • dartharva 2 days ago ago

        A woman wearing anything but a burqa in an extremist Islamic society would be popularly categorized as one of the "people with no shame, and with strong anti-social tendencies". So according to you liberal women in Iran, Pakistan, Sudan etc should not be given a safe space, is it?

        • cowboylowrez 13 minutes ago ago

          freedom gets messy, authoritarian governments that rule with an iron fist seem to have things all sorted out and are very reassuring to certain types of people.

  • eisbaw 19 hours ago ago

    > You get certainty in an uncertain world. You get a community that will defend you. You get a simple heuristic for navigating complex issues.

    Like religion

    • wslh 19 hours ago ago

      Religion artifacts exists in part for organizing communities. For example, The Ten Commandments were revolutionary and short.

  • BrenBarn a day ago ago

    This article is advice for individuals on how to resist the societal incentives to embrace insanity. But what I'm really interested in is advice for how to fix our society so it doesn't incentivize insanity.

    • conqrr a day ago ago

      Reminds me of seatbelts on airplane, put them first before trying to help others.

      • johnisgood 21 hours ago ago

        How do you help others if you physically restrain yourself from doing so though? I can imagine some help but it severely limits the help you can provide and needed, depending on the situation.

    • throwawayqqq11 13 hours ago ago

      Scepticism taught in schools. Demonstrate manipulation on kids and conclude that even educated, intelligent minds can get entangled when they let their guard down.

      > We talk a lot about polarization as if it were a disease that infected society, but we’re missing a key data point: polarization is a growth hack, and it works.

      Unfortunately the article does not explain how it works and without a problem definition, you cant reach a solution. IMO it certainly behaves like a disease.

      I consider identity politics as one vector how a mind virus can take over the hosts higher order reasoning. There are certainly other vectors (cognitive biases) but IP is definetly the biggest driving factor behind todays polarization. Calling others "liberals" is primarily a signal to label an outgroup.

      On what political side do you see more symbols like flags, stickers, memes, etc? Entire news cycle narratives can get deprived of meaning and act as the most recent symbol, individuals can use to signal their group membership. Any counter argument against such a holy cow gets viciously attacked or ignored because to some degree, this counter argument is an actual attack on yourself, your identitiy. Admitting errors is no big deal when nothing is at stake. The opposite example would be a very religious person loosing faith with an adrenaline rush (sweat, shiver, high heart rate, flat respiration), when the body prepares a fight or flight response because a strong, non-ignorable and contradicting thought crossed its mind.

      And on what political side do you see more intelligence and broader empathy? More cognitive flexibility?

      Around 2000, the internet was considered a new "printing press 2.0" for making information widely accessible. This analogy fits very well, because the first ever western book to be printed was the f'ing bible.

  • andyferris 17 hours ago ago

    This is a very interesting article.

    I'm not 100% convinced every influencer _feels_ trapped in a world of their own making - but it's correct that truth this day is suffering a bit of a "tragedy of the commons" problem.

    > The world will keep offering you bad trades, will keep rewarding positions you know are too simple to be true.

    Here's a story. I'd guess there's at least a few HN folk with a similar tale.

    I'm not a real believer in cryptocurrency, in its current popular form at least. Actual value would be delivered by fast transaction rates at (very) high speed, high assurance, and some kind of oversight or ability to reverse transactions (you can choose your cutoff anywhere from "convicted criminal behavior" to "I disputed a transaction on my Visa/Mastercard just because I could" but ultimately society and the law needs to be an effective backstop of the system). Yet I was introduced to the bitcoin paper sometime near its release by a PhD officemate, and was a specialist in high performance and GPU computing at the time, and resolved to go home and spend a few hours mining a coin, but instead I just chilled out when I got home. I could literally have hundreds of coins right now (or equivalent cash). For years I could have chosen to join the bandwagen, but resolved not to. Currently my parents are profiting - go figure.

    So yeah the world offers some interesting trades from time to time!

    In any case I found the article meaningful. I'm glad I live outside the US and its current polarization, but I feel we have the same problem growing here. Hopefully we all learn to deal with it and sort out our differences.

  • johnsmith1840 6 hours ago ago

    I view social media through this lens now.

    https://youtu.be/fuFlMtZmvY0?si=Jwtky2w0j41u4zLP

    It's less that we are in echo chambers and more of being completly flooded with too many opinions.

    Avacados == liberal Steaks == conservative

    The point I take is that the only way to prevent this is decrease the amount of information you recieve not increase. If you constantly read extreme opinions everywhere your brain cannot process it and therefore starts dropping everything into really big buckets. The more sides you read the bigger your buckets becomes.

    Sure you're less informed but I don't think humans were designed to grok the entire world's information either.

  • Havoc 20 hours ago ago

    Really should have mentioned algorithmic feeds too. They’re imo one of the biggest contributors to this.

    Diversify your sources is a good start but without algos are a gravity well of sorts too - it pulls you into echo chambers - that are stronger than manual attempts to select diversity

  • mediumsmart an hour ago ago

    Arno Gruen the insanity of normality

  • resonanormal 2 days ago ago

    We are at this point where we need to “Turn on, tune in, drop out” again. This mass media circus of social media and influencers doesn’t help anyone except their own self centred interests. Fair to say this is easier in Europe where we don’t have the propaganda firehose but I think it’s time to switch off US friends

    • robot-wrangler 2 days ago ago

      There's some truth to this because "Culture is not your friend, man." Ironically though it really needs update, maybe more like turn off, tune out, rise up?

    • stronglikedan 2 days ago ago

      > this is easier in Europe where we don’t have the propaganda firehose

      quite ironic, given that we're talking about cognitive dissonance amongst other things

  • d4rkn0d3z 18 hours ago ago

    Here is a program for avoiding insanity:

    1) Always listen to your rational adversary, repeat their arguments back to them to their satisfaction rather than in caricature.

    2) List facts; states of affairs that are not in dispute. Adduce no fact in isolation.

    3) Form the strongest version of your rational counterparts' argument.

    4) Apply reason faithfully to analyze.

    5) Lather rinse repeat.

    It seems the above is the best humans have every been able to do, it is child's play that we somehow forgot, maybe because we labelled it as something obscure like "the scientific method" or "legal process". I think this is as simple as "follow your nose".

  • jjk166 2 days ago ago

    The real grift has been in echo chambers changing peoples vocabulary such that we can use the same words but talk right past eachother, allowing extremely moderate positions to be reframed as extreme and making what ought to be minor disagreements unresolvable. People making an "I can see both sides" argument are completely missing the point - the issue is that most people can't see both sides, and even when they go out of their way to look at the other side's argument, they come away even more convinced that the other side's argument is dumb because it is dumb, if it is assumed everyone is speaking the same language. People haven't all suddenly become insane, or dumb, or unreasonable; we've just taken for granted that people geographically close to us using the same vocabulary would mean the same things, and thus we never developed the skills to translate between people who are in fact living in wildly different worlds possibly in the same household. And much of this is by design - pointing out how dumb someone else is, and complaining about the burden of dealing with these dumb people, takes so much less effort than actually doing the work to build consensus and make changes.

    • alextingle 18 hours ago ago

      Can you give an example or two of this conflicting vocabulary?

    • disambiguation a day ago ago

      > The real grift has been in echo chambers changing peoples vocabulary

      Glad others are noticing this, it deserves more attention than it gets and everyone should be aware it's happening.

    • stronglikedan 2 days ago ago

      one of the first steps in any color revolution is changing the language to confuse everyone, so it's not surprising that it's so common

    • welcome_dragon a day ago ago

      Exactly correct on echo chambers. I say my opinion on something and I hear the exact same responses from pro people and the exact same responses from con people. Everyone hears it.

      Repeating the same words someone else does to make yourn point makes me think the other person isn't capable of considering they might be wrong.

      I disagree with saying "I can see both sides". That's another echo chamber. If I say I can reasonably see both sides of an issue, one side calls me an idiot and uneducated and suc h and the other goes straw man and how I'm a communist and/or Hitler. No. I can see why side A thinks the way they do and side B thinks the way they do.

      I'm not talking about hot topics either.

      I'm really starting to just want to get away from all society and/or just never have more than surface level conversations with people.

  • abixb 14 hours ago ago

    Switching a Japanese dumbphone (Kyocera) was the best thing I ever did. Eliminating your smartphone (as inconvenient and life altering as it may be -- you'll need to figure out a path) is probably the single most effective thing you can do to get into the top 1-10%... of people with properly functioning cognition.

  • oytis 2 days ago ago

    I don't quite get the connection between the premise and the conclusion. Sure, influencers get rewarded by social media algorithms for polarising content, but most people are not influencers.

    • parpfish 2 days ago ago

      i found it weird that this person has multiple friends that were able to "make bank" by having polarizing opinions. i know a ton of folks with polarizing opinions and none of them are monetizing it.

      what kind of world is this author living in where their social circle includes so many influencers that are cashing in on social media?

      • IncreasePosts a day ago ago

        I assume it was the author ratting on themselves and their para social relationships. I'm guessing "friend" here is a person the author follows on Twitter and occasionally exchanges a DM with

    • JKCalhoun 2 days ago ago

      And the influenced are rewarded by the influencer that is validating their polarized views.

      You also might be putting too fine a point on "influencer". A relative of mine on Facebook might be a kind of "influencer"—at least with regard to his small cadre of family and friends that follow him.

      • oytis 2 days ago ago

        You can look at it it this way, but why your small circle of family and friends would reward polarizing opinions? If anything, I have seen people losing real life relationships by not knowing when to stop in online arguments

        • JKCalhoun a day ago ago

          That's for sure. Sure think a lot less of some members of my family and a coworker or two thanks to SM (can we just call it SM?).

    • korse 2 days ago ago

      >most people are not influencers.

      Perhaps, but many are. They just don't have much reach or don't use a digital platform.

    • wnevets 2 days ago ago

      > but most people are not influencers.

      they either get elected or appointment to the government

  • cjfd 2 days ago ago

    Nobody can vouch for their own sanity. Attempting to do so only make you sound insane. Incentives to be insane? Sure, but.... it is timing the stock market of ideas. Some will get rich but most will not. And sanity either has to return or insanity will destroy many lives and the society in which it is allowed free reign. In any case if you promoted insanity when sanity returns and people regain their ability to have a memory you may reap what you seeded.

    • johnisgood 21 hours ago ago

      > Nobody can vouch for their own sanity. Attempting to do so only make you sound insane.

      Exactly, and if people deem you to be insane, you cannot do anything about that. They will find reasons for why what you are saying is out of your insanity. There is a great movie about a woman being held against her own will at the locked up psychiatric ward and it explores this.

  • avhception 2 days ago ago

    Trying to talk reason to multiple sides makes you an outcast.

    • welcome_dragon a day ago ago

      Lol case in point: me trying to have a reasonable discussion about property taxes going up 66% in one year.

      I thought people might argue that this could put an unfair burden on poor families or fixed income families, or maybe some reason to justify or not.

      Nope. Lots of name calling, trying to dox me, ad hominem attacks on everyone from multiple sides.

      I'm convinced that anonymity (or, more correctly, perceived anonymity) makes some people act in ways they never would face to face.

      Eh this probably makes me a "Boomer" but I've seen it for years. Basically everyone's a troll now.

      • johnisgood 21 hours ago ago

        I am 31 years old. Same experiences. You have to find the right audience. For me, it was particular IRC channels where they were still quite reasonable.

  • maclombardi 2 days ago ago

    It's easier said than done. I simply observe everything and try not to react unless I absolutely need to.

    This summer I started to write my thoughts an observations. Maybe you will find it helpful.

    https://www.immaculateconstellation.info/the-middle-path-a-m...

  • giva 2 days ago ago

    > You get certainty in an uncertain world. You get a community that will defend you. You get a simple heuristic for navigating complex issues.

    This is what faith used to provide. I say this as a not religious person: Maybe societies really need something like religion to channel irrationality?

    • danielbln a day ago ago

      We've been trying religion for as long there have been humans. Tends to suffer from the same shortcomings: very easy to subvert and abuse by adversial agents (grifters, sociopaths, etc) and increases in-group/out-group thinking.

      We need something new.

      • giva a day ago ago

        But the point is, that's the same happening right now without religion. At least, with organized religion, you have someone accountable.

        Again, this come from someone without a religious affiliation.

  • BLKNSLVR a day ago ago

    We need 'unfluencers'.

    The problem is that it would just be the same few message repeated ad nauseum:

    - Treat it all like it's trying to sell you something

    - Think for yourself

    - Nothing is as simple as it seems

    - One person does not represent an entire race/country/group (ie. anecdata is not truth)

    etc.

    As they say, however, a lie can travel the world twice before the truth has tied its shoe laces.

    • wslh 19 hours ago ago

      There is a critical problem with influencers: once they build a large audience, they often feel compelled to stick to the same message, even if they later realize it's wrong, because influence itself becomes a business and a source of power.

      • BLKNSLVR 2 hours ago ago

        I think Unfluencers can be consistent because they're not taking a position.

        But that also means it's unprofitable, so why do it?

        Which, in itself, is an interesting commentary on Influencers.

  • cs702 2 days ago ago

    More succinctly:

    The Nash equilibrium of public discourse on social media is extremism and polarization ...

    ... because for each individual, the way to get more clicks and influence is by becoming more extreme and polarizing.

    Sigh.

    • robot-wrangler a day ago ago

      Exactly, so about that, there's good news and bad news. Epistemic and mean field game theory is eventually going to be well understood stuff and define better alternatives very, very specifically. After we understand our past completely AND can predict our future, we'll know exactly what to fix and how, but unfortunately nothing whatsoever will change anyway. Probably someone will weaponize it to actually make things worse! Cold comfort to be sure, but I personally will still sleep easier after I know exactly why we are doomed.

      https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5U1-OmAICpU

    • spencerflem 2 days ago ago

      Idk, I’m a big critic of social media (don’t use any but hacker news). Really do think it has lots and lots of problems.

      But what’s polarized me isnt that. It’s just reading regular news and caring about the world.

  • charlesabarnes 2 days ago ago

    I think disengaging from social media is a big part of this. These advertiser and engagement fueled algorithms promote all of the insane takes as well. You find much more fulfillment engaging with people locally or people in your close circles.

    • AndrewKemendo 2 days ago ago

      I’m not on social media unless you consider HN social media (I don’t) and the world is still totally as insane as it was before the internet.

      For your average city person:

      The food you’re offered is sugar + preservatives, the water is either non-existent (Tehran) or poisoned with fracking gas (Flint), almost all local communities have collapsed into extreme versions of themselves, the rich and poor still don’t mingle, men fear women and women want nothing to do with men, there is no upside to having a family or children.

      I just spoke at a HBS event in DC last night about robotics and on one side of the room were people starting AI companion services and in the other side people were saying AI was causing the rise of Tradwives. It was like looking at 50 “deer in headlights” when explaining how thoroughly they have already integrated third party algorithmic logic into their decision processes - and are totally unaware of it.

      The real world is absurd and getting less coherent with more information available. Humans aren’t biologically equipped for the world we collectively built.

      • JKCalhoun 2 days ago ago

        Your disconnect from Social Media and "the world still totally insane"—the latter is of course not dependent on the former. Perhaps we need to get the rest of the world also off Social Media? Off the internet?

        Given that we can't do that, I choose then to continue my hobbies, take more walks, try to declutter my place, improve my health, lose weight, look for comfortable chats with my daughters, wife, friends…

        I'm not sure where you see men and women not trusting one another. If I had to guess it would be that you perceive this from things you have seen on the internet?

        I find the internet is kind of like that silly cave in "The Empire Strikes Back"—where you find only what you bring with you. Try looking for positive things and people and see if you are not rewarded. (And if you cannot, just drop the internet completely. I have a friend that I think checks online for about 30 minutes in the morning and then he's done for the day.)

        • AndrewKemendo a day ago ago

          I have teenagers headed to college. I’m seeing it first/second hand.

          Across high schools in the US kids aren’t dating like they used to and are vocal about not just ambivalence but hostility toward having kids.

          Oddly enough my kids want to get married and have kids and report on how it’s odd to them others positions, so if anything I’m biased the other direction from exposure.

          I don’t care either way, not having kids is a valid approach, but it’s a fact that there’s going to be societal impacts.

      • dfedbeef 2 days ago ago

        You think Tehran and Flint are good cases for 'average city'?

        • AndrewKemendo 2 days ago ago

          Yes

          Both are significantly different but still fail to provide the most basic service: access to clean water

          I can trivially get access to plenty of clean drinking water in most “wild” places in the world, in fact that’s like the third core thing you learn in survival schools (of which I’ve attended many).

          • dfedbeef 2 days ago ago

            You're doing the thing that the article is talking about. Neither are average examples. I don't know about Tehran, but you have to really be cherry-picking to make a data set where Flint ends up as an average case of municipal water quality.

            • dfedbeef 2 days ago ago

              Stoked you took a survival class though! I'm not being sarcastic, it sounds fun.

            • AndrewKemendo a day ago ago

              No it’s demonstrating that at the relative extreme ends you have the same problem thus creating the linear equation with the minimum set

              The reader should deduce that any measure along the same linear map - which is effectively every city aka the “average city” - will eventually be subject to this condition (water insecurity)

              You can trivially verify this by looking at issues of water insecurity and water quality issues across every size city. Notice that you will have non-trivial numbers of “boil water” events in the United States south. You may have significant periods of drought throughout your average city in sub-Saharan Africa, Sonoran desert or western China for example.

              I think maybe your definition of “average” only includes modern metropolitan areas and not simply as cities where people are geographically clustering across the globe.

              I lived in San Angelo Texas in 2009 and I did not have potable water in my home. I had to go to Walmart and fill 5 gallon jugs of Culligan water every few days. That’s not particularly abnormal

              To be fair I offered a fairly complex/compressed way to approach this, so not easily interpreted, but nonetheless that’s the point

      • rizwank 2 days ago ago

        Man, I’d love to hear that talk.

      • volkk 2 days ago ago

        > there is no upside to having a family or children

        what exactly does this even mean?

        • AndrewKemendo 2 days ago ago

          Search: Gen Z explains why they don’t want a family and kids

          All are rational arguments

          https://youtu.be/fHpgIvuETx0?si=zWIqJvQMeDcSD223

          • volkk 2 days ago ago

            I felt the same thing when i was 22--kids aren't for me, this world sucks, etc etc. Eventually I "grew up," toned down short term hedonistic pleasures, read books that deepened my connection to humanity and realized family is extremely meaningful.

            First off, there's nothing new about interviewing people who are in their early 20s and hearing moaning and groaning about how this world sucks and it's not worth bringing anyone into it. I'm not religious whatsoever, but there's something deeply spiritual about the human experience of family/kids. It's certainly not for everyone if you're mature enough to understand the downsides and decide not to--but the secondary point I want to make is that I think most people are naive/immature. They follow trends and take a lot of direction from social media. The endless short term dopamine hits from every corner of your life will definitely have anybody questioning -- "why would i make my life harder when i can live only for myself and continue tiktoking in the evenings for 3 hours" -- our society is fundamentally broken, and that's not just the USA. I've traveled to other places and have bumped into the social media zombies everywhere.

            • creata 12 hours ago ago

              > this world sucks and it's not worth bringing anyone into it

              What exactly is wrong ("moaning and groaning", something that you "grew up" from), in your estimation, about that perspective?

              > realized family is extremely meaningful

              I believe that many people with the aforementioned perspective would agree with you, but would add that reducing further suffering is an overriding priority.

  • josefritzishere 2 days ago ago

    Being reasonable is basicaly the core requirement of civilization. If your culture is incapable of tolerance or variation it's also incapable of growth. It gets locked in a cyclical purity test and collapse.

  • refurb 19 hours ago ago

    The irony of an article that talks about beliefs being fed by internet content, then suggests using internet content to address it.

    Turtles all the way down.

  • ekjhgkejhgk 2 days ago ago

    > One friend became “convinced” that every major news story was manufactured consent. Another started treating political disagreement as evidence of moral corruption. A third began using the word "liberal" as if it was a personality disorder rather than loose coalitions of sometimes contradictory beliefs.

    Uh.... The vast majority of new stories from major outlets ARE manufactured consent.

    • uniq7 18 hours ago ago

      What does "manufactured consent" mean?

      I thought consent is a synonym of agreement or willingness. If so, what do they mean with "manufactured agreement" exactly?

      I don't live in USA and English is not my mother language, so maybe I'm missing some alternative urban definition for this expression?

      • ekjhgkejhgk 15 hours ago ago

        I understand what you're saying. But people who use the expression "manufactured consent" know that it comes from Chomsky and use it in the same sense as Chomsky did. It refers to the idea that the only debate that the media allows is that which doesn't challenge any actual power. Furthermore that expression also refers to the fact that this is achieved without anyone having to explicitly coerse the media. The individuals in it self-select to support with the agenda. You're allowed to be a revolutionary, but no one in the media will give you a job because they're all benefiting from the status quo and don't want to rock and boat.

        For example, the left media hypes the democrats and the right media hypes the republicans. You're encouraged to debate which is better, because it doesn't actually change anything. But if there's a candidate that says "corporations have too much power and are using to exploit labour", both sides of the media will attack them.

        https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Manufacturing_Consent

        • uniq7 5 hours ago ago

          Thanks! I didn't know that expression came from Chomsky, now it makes total sense.

  • acqbu 10 hours ago ago

    No VPN allowed, why?

  • eboynyc32 a day ago ago

    Who is the arbitrator of what’s right?

  • heisgone 2 days ago ago

    >A third began using the word "liberal" as if it was a personality disorder rather than loose coalitions of sometimes contradictory beliefs.

    I'm a long time Jon Stewart fan and if I'm being honest, looked at the "other side" as if it was a bunch of retarded people isn't new and predate 2016. No doubt Trump and social media got conservative to embrace condescending and extreme rhetoric and pushed it to another level but let's not pretend they invented anything.

  • BugsJustFindMe 2 days ago ago

    I have a hard time taking this kind of enlightened-centrist both-sides gruel very seriously. Calling every strong position "extreme" is a classic sleight-of-hand maneuver by people who want to mask their own wrong-side-of-history beliefs that they know they should feel ashamed of expressing.

    Yes, yes, look for truth beyond labeled groups, but pretending that the "sides" are equal is some utterly moronic "Fair and Balanced" bullshit.

    > it makes you realize that intelligent people can disagree with you without being monsters or morons.

    Many issues really do have a bright dividing line. I mean, for fuck's sake, there are people who are currently fighting against releasing the Epstein files, documents that clearly incriminate pedophilic rape and sex trafficking.

    > One friend became “convinced” that every major news story was manufactured consent.

    I think the author here doesn't actually understand what manufactured consent is, because believing otherwise demonstrates media illiteracy. Talking about our extreme filter bubbles (community/information homogeneity) in one breath and then denying the pervasiveness of manufactured consent in the next is otherwise a perfect demonstration of Gell-Mann amnesia.

    • GaryBluto 18 hours ago ago

      "enlightened-centrist" and "both-sides(ism)" are phrases left-leaning people use to try and say "My team good, your team bad, to believe anything else is insanity/stupidity!" without coming off as a douchebag. (It doesn't work)

    • cruffle_duffle 13 hours ago ago

      It isn’t “us vs them”. It’s just “us”.

      Mainstream media and social media polarize the fuck out of us and make everything so fucking toxic and tribal. Snap out of it!

      We are all just people trying to make our way in this world with imperfect information and no instruction manual.

    • upstairs_key a day ago ago

      This is a common misconception about what it means to be against political extremes.

      It does not mean "both sides have a point".

      It does not mean "both sides" are equally bad.

      It does not even mean that there are necessarily two sides.

      The term "centrist" is used to imply and reinforce these misconceptions, encouraging people toward extremes. When you see things in black and white, of course everything is a straight line from good to evil (with you at the far end of good), so if someone only partially agrees with you, they're in the "center" and that much closer to Hitler than you. It's hard to step outside of this fantasy. But I'll try to help you.

      Imagine the following dialogue.

      A: "Are you Hindu or Muslim?"

      B: "Neither. I'm an atheist."

      A: "Oh, so you are torn between Vishnu and Muhammad."

      And yes, one of the political parties is significantly more deranged than the other right now. You don't need to be extreme to see that and it is possible to vote for the more reasonable party without drinking their kool-aid.

  • jrochkind1 2 days ago ago

    This comments section is so full of examples illustrating what the OP is critiquing that it's depressing.

  • micromacrofoot 2 days ago ago

    A lot of this goes away when you stop spending so much time on social media, which is a very poor reflection of "reality." Part of the problem is that there are a number of people who can't really look away, because they've built their livelihoods on it. Traditional media in many ways has come to rely on it too. Unfortunate mistake.

    Prominent figures on social media change their minds all the time, but they'll re-sculpt their reality around the basis that they were always right anyway. Just take a look at how the story around the Epstein files changes with the way the wind blows. It feels very familiar to the "Narcissist's Prayer."

    • VintageRobot 2 days ago ago

      > A lot of this goes away when you stop spending so much time on social media, which is a very poor reflection of "reality."

      It mainly "too much time of political social media". You can always tell.

      What you find is that a lot of people will be repeating talking points and/or catch phrases without putting much thought into it. A lot of this is fed to them by people who are essentially evangelists and many of these people I am convinced are given they talking points, because they all say the same thing at roughly the same time.

      > Prominent figures on social media change their minds all the time, but they'll re-sculpt their reality around the basis that they were always right anyway

      They can do that if they are getting a decent turnover of new viewers. That doesn't work too well when their fanbase is declining.

      If you look into the UFO land which is the worst for this and the most obvious because often the claims are ridiculous. What often happens is that someone will be outright exposed for being a fraud e.g. someone proves that a video was fake. They will then disappear for a few months or maybe a few years. During that time, many more new people would have filtered into the community and many won't look into that person's background.

    • spectralista 17 hours ago ago

      I haven't used social media in over a decade and I change my mind all the time. Changing your mind is a good thing for a thinking being.

      Social media figures aren't changing their mind in the same way, they are changing and optimizing their public performance.

      Professional social media is a paid performance. We understand that Tom Cruise is not really a highly skilled jet fighter pilot but a well paid actor playing the role of one. No one cares what Tom Cruise thinks about Ukraine/Russia air defense tactics. This gets hidden in plain sight with social media though and why social media is hyper stupifying.

      • micromacrofoot 16 hours ago ago

        Right, it's not so much "changing minds" in that they probably aren't thinking about much very deeply... it's more like "changing to suit the popular narrative direction"

    • bwfan123 2 days ago ago

      from the article.

      > The returns on reasonableness have almost entirely collapsed

      If you measure returns by others' approval, then you are doomed as the world is fickle. Unfortunately, as a writer or journalist you are forced to depend on approval of others.

      The alternative is to sculpt a framework or scorecard largely independent of what others think - but this is hard, as we are social creatures.

      • VintageRobot 2 days ago ago

        There is a large number of people that appreciate being told the truth. That model actually works better over the long term.

        Grifting (which is what is often seen on social media platforms by many of the personalities) can give you large rewards quickly however you are always at risk at being found out. Once they are exposed, it is often usually over for them.

      • micromacrofoot 2 days ago ago

        > as a writer or journalist you are forced to depend on approval of others

        and sometimes the disapproval of others, as we've seen with the sort of rage-baiting headlines many blogs, social media accounts, and even traditional media outlets, are writing

        and the thing is... this approval/disapproval reaction isn't elicited to necessarily build coalitions, make friends, or change minds, it's often built to sell eyes-on-ads which is a completely perverse incentive that has eaten the mainstream internet

  • lazide 2 days ago ago

    The challenge is that short-term incentives can easily lead to long-term problems, as the short-term min/maxing can leave you stuck in a particular global minimum, with no clear way out.

    • Arainach 2 days ago ago

      >the short-term min/maxing can leave you stuck in a particular global minimum, with no clear way out.

      Short term min/maxing leaves you in a local maximum (the opposite of what you said)

      • lazide 2 days ago ago

        Local maximum != global maximum (usually).

        I said global minimum, which can easily happen if you end up at local maximum, but you’ll never know unless you randomly search elsewhere (and potentially end up even lower).

        • Arainach a day ago ago

          A local maximum by definition cannot be a global minimum. A local maximum has to be higher than things around it, which are part of the global space.

          • lazide a day ago ago

            Fair point. However, the local maximum doesn’t have to be far from the global minimum.

            If the global maximum is 10, minimum is 1, you could easily end up in a region with local maximum 2, minimum 1.

  • hexator 2 days ago ago

    Not sure what the point of this is other than to complain about being out of touch with the world. Too many people think "diversifying your information" means subscribing to whatever drivel they find on substack instead of, you know, following a diverse set of _actual journalists_.

    • HeinzStuckeIt 2 days ago ago

      Over the last many years, newspapers have slashed actual journalists in a number of areas: investigative reporting, arts, local news. A lot of those actual journalists have moved to Substack in order to maintain some kind of career writing about the subject they love.

      For me, the tragedy of Substack isn’t that it consists of purely unserious people. It’s that fine journalists go there because, with the death of open-web blogging, there’s a feeling that there is no where else to go. And then, once there, they start to pick up all kinds of bad behaviors that both Substack the for-profit corporate owner and its culture of writers and commenters encourage.

      • hexator 2 days ago ago

        That's true, the point I was making was that it's about you decide to trust with sending you news not just the outlet. The problem is that many people who are rightfully distrustful of traditional media end up following cranks. And Substack seems to be the place where the cranks hang out.

  • VintageRobot 2 days ago ago

    > The friend who saw conspiracies everywhere built a following. Then an audience. Then a 7-figure income stream.

    That person is almost certainly a grifter. If I was dishonest enough to do it, I would to.

    It isn't that difficult if you are reasonably articulate, look reasonably tidy and can upload a 20 minute video once day to get an audience. A lot of these people are simply choosing a "side" and then repeating the talking points.

    There are people that make 10-20k a month just reading the news and many of them aren't even good at doing that.

  • mock-possum 2 days ago ago

    > The writer who says "this issue has nuance and I can see valid concerns on multiple sides" gets a pat on the head and zero retweets.

    Because I think at this point ‘both sides ism’ Is easily recognizable as a dead end rhetorical strategy. At best it’s an ignorant position, at worst it’s low effort engagement bait / concern trolling that actively sabotages progress.

    • MarkusQ 2 days ago ago

      The phrase/concept "both side ism" is a very clever bait and switch that, so far as I can tell, was designed to marginalize/discredit people who are trying to actually engage with the issues (instead of just toxically emoting), and it was avidly adopted and weaponized as such. By both sides.

      • array_key_first a day ago ago

        No, moderatism or centrism is legitimately a fallacy. The idea or intuition that, given two endpoints, the most correct position is one in the middle, is a fallacy. It depends entirely on the endpoints.

        For example: the three fifths compromise. Turns out, bad. The correct answer was emancipation all along, and the 'centrist' answer was just bad. Because, well, one of the endpoints was slavery. If you 'halfway' slavery, that's still bad. There's no merits or 'well what about's when it comes to slavery.

        That doesn't mean centrists or moderates are wrong - they're often right. But it DOES mean that just taking a middle of the road approach isn't reasonable. You need to actually understand why you're doing that, and why the middle makes the most sense. In some parts of the world, right now, as in right now right now, the 'both sides' argument is pro-genocide. In the past it's been pro-slavery, pro-colonialism, pro-holocaust, whatever. Plenty of really bad stuff.

        So, you can't hide behind 'both sides'. You need to justify WHY 'both sides' and why in the middle is best for this particular case.

        • MarkusQ 10 hours ago ago

          So you just did a Mote and Bailey. The initial claim was that "anyone rejecting both extremes is automatically wrong"; I pointed out that this was a weaponized defense being used by both sides to hide their BS, and instead of responding to that, you refuted the similar sounding but unrelated claim (which hadn't been made) that "the truth is somewhere in the middle".

          Saying that both sides are peddling absolute bollocks is not, in any way, a claim that we'd be better off with some sort of average of the two. Both sides are mostly full of it, full stop.

    • kentm 2 days ago ago

      In my opinion, the problem is that journalists in general used “both sides” rhetoric where it wasn’t warranted to avoid accusations of bias. It feels that nuance is used out of cowardice more often than not.

      There’s also the fact that not all positions are equally valid or evidence based. Nuance doesn’t mean treating each position as equally valid, but evaluating each on the evidence. Journalists almost uniformly mistake “both sides” for nuance. There’s nuance in discussions about global warming, but treating “global warming is not man made” as a valid position is not an example of that.

      Nuance is definitely something we need more of, but we also need to call a spade a spade more often.

      • BrenBarn a day ago ago

        The boy who cried "there's a wolf on both sides!"

  • pksebben 2 days ago ago

    If all your relationships fail in the same manner, it is likely that the problem is you.

    > One friend became “convinced” that every major news story was manufactured consent. Another started treating political disagreement as evidence of moral corruption. A third began using the word "liberal" as if it was a personality disorder rather than loose coalitions of sometimes contradictory beliefs.

    Manufactured consent is a real thing, with mounting evidence that it's becoming increasingly prevalent. The ownership structures around major news outlets are worrisome and what many considered 'reliable' for years are now showing seriously problematic habits (like genocide erasure - lookin' at you, NYT.)

    Liberalism has come under completely valid scrutiny as we've seen fiscal policies implemented by Clinton and Obama blow up in our faces. No, we don't think Reaganomics is anything but a grift, but many of us see the grift in NAFTA and the ACA and Gramm-Leach-Bliley and have begun to question the honesty of centrist liberal economic policies because we are seeing them fail catastrophically.

    > The incentive gradient was clear: sanity was expensive, and extremism paid dividends.

    Author is doing something subtle here - without making a defense or interrogation of the statement, they are saying "Not being liberal / centrist is extremism, and thus invalid". I call bullshit.

    I have not profited or benefited from my "extreme" leftist views. If anything, I take a risk every time I talk about them out in the open. My comment history is going to be visible to all future employers. Should the government continue it's rightward slide I'll have a target painted on my back that I put there. I don't believe the things I believe because it's convenient, I believe them because in my estimation, we are operating on a set of failed systems and it's important that we fix them because they present a real and present danger.

    We have Trump because Biden was utterly incapable of facing the actual problems people are having with the economic prosperity gap. If you don't address the actual hardship in people's lives, you leave the door open for a huckster to make those promises for you. Most will take the unreliable promise of a better tomorrow over being lied to about whether they even have a problem. You don't need a PhD in economics to know that whatever the GDP might be you're still broke and you can't afford to feed your kids.

    • spencerflem 2 days ago ago

      Totally agreed with all points. Thanks for writing it up so elegantly

    • alksdjf89243 2 days ago ago

      Breaking people raises the GDP. It wasn't that Biden was incapable, I mean besides the dementia his party and the media hid from its viewers, he was capable of fixing the problem for the less than billionaires.

      The problem is believing the other party has an alternative. The problem is belief in the other. Who we believe the other is.

      The other isn't anyone who doesn't have power over you. The problem is believing people who say someone who doesn't have power over you is the other.

      There is only the powerless and the powerful.

  • photochemsyn 2 days ago ago

    The author might want to admit that 'moderate reasonable' positions are also branded and incentivized, and can lead to lucrative jobs in the corporate media and think tank worlds and even in the social media influencer space.

    What really smells bad here is the 'stupid and insane' theme - everyone who disagrees with my moderate position is living in stupid-world or lacks sanity is itself an extremist fundamentalist position held by many so-called centrists and institutional bureaucrats whose impartiality is questionable as they are economic beneficiaries of the status quo.

    Relatedly, extremist positions arise from extreme conditions - a well-paid experienced factory employee who loses their job due to the corporation outsourcing manufacturing to India will likely adopt an extreme position of opposition to shareholder or venture capital control of corporate decisions, and start advocating for worker control of corporations. Does that make them stupid and insane? Or is that just the spin the shareholders and venture capitalists are trying to put on their reasonable moderate position about sharing wealth and power in a more democratic fashion?

  • paganel 2 days ago ago

    > One friend became “convinced” that every major news story was manufactured consent

    Where's the lie in that? Hasn't this lady read her Gramsci? Seems like she didn't.

    > Tech writer (Wired, TIME, TNW), angel investor, CMO

    I see now, for sure she hasn't read her Gramsci.

    • hexator 2 days ago ago

      This person doesn't seem aware of their contradictions in both complaining about people not following diverse viewpoints and also downright dismissing any amount of self-reflection that might be coming from people to their left.

  • alksdjf89243 2 days ago ago

    The article is an indictment on hackernews itself. I'm sure that won't be well received here, because of what the article says, specifically: "Start by diversifying your information diet in ways that feel actively uncomfortable."

    There is almost no diversity of thought here, simply due to the algorithm. The basis of acceptance is agreeing with the main ideology here.

    When the algorithm of the platform is to banish those who disagree, tribal unity is the outcome.

    The algorithm doesn't allow disagreement. The algorithm is wrong and part of the algorithm is to disallow commenting on the algorithm.