9 comments

  • nicbou 4 months ago ago

    This happens to me all the time. I am a software engineer, but I have my own (mostly unrelated business) that already fills my schedule and my coffers.

    I just say no. I give my friends as much advice as I can, but I won't do any other work. At some point, you get diminishing returns on the extra work you do. Life is short and you can't spend all of it getting richer.

    • liammoore 4 months ago ago

      If you are someone who gets a lot of projects coming your way, wouldn’t you rather help people get their ideas over the line and maybe get some additional credibility and networking from it? Maybe it means more to me as I’m a little earlier in my career, but I feel like I don’t want to pass up on these opportunities.

      I’m looking for ways that I can take a management role on projects and have other devs do most of the heavy coding - is this something you have tried?

  • JohnFen 4 months ago ago

    I just say "no". If I know of someone else who I think would be interested, I'll refer the person to them, otherwise I don't. I don't think this is a huge issue requiring a special tool to address.

  • aosaigh 4 months ago ago

    What is the problem precisely? You don't have enough time? You don't want to say no to the potential client? You don't know where to send the potential client?

    These are all different problems and I don't think they'll be solved by building a tool. They're human problems.

    - Don't have enough time? Change jobs or go full-time as a freelancer. Alternatively hire someone else to help you out.

    - Don't want to say no immediately? Charge them for an initial consultation or roadmap phase that won't involve the lengthy commitment to build.

    - Don't know where to send the client? Start networking - find some other developers or agencies that want the work.

    • liammoore 4 months ago ago

      It’s mostly that I don’t have the time, and neither do the other developers in my network (most of the time).

      These are really interesting ideas - I like the consultation idea.

      When it comes to referring agencies, I feel like it’s a reputation risk to me if I can’t validate the quality of the work they will produce. Any tips for this?

  • rl1987 4 months ago ago

    Plenty of people have ideas, but not many of them have resources and skills to actually build even a lifestyle business. Just say no unless they are going to pay you enough to be worth the effort.

  • ihateslideshows 4 months ago ago

    Like other posters I'd advice to say 'no'. I'm on the other end of the scale as I took such project knowing I'll have not enough time to work on it and now I regret making this decision. It's more difficult to drop it now that it's 'almost finished', and more importantly because of people I built it for. Sure, I got a % of venture, but any % of 0 is still 0.. I'd prefer to have clean mind over weekend and spend time with kids than worrying about stuff that needs to be done.

    • liammoore 4 months ago ago

      Is there a reason you haven’t looked for other people to help out? Is it because you are being given equity rather than cash?

      • ihateslidesh0ws 4 months ago ago

        I was the only one who was naive enough to take the project, I wanted to share it but everyone was like "pay me, I won't work for free". Back then I thought I'll just do it myself, that was a mistake- I should be in the "pay me" crowd :)